Sometimes, in raising my children, I found that making a blanket statement is very effective. (This post is a continuation of yesterday’s post which also contained a blanket statement that has worked well in our family.)
Here’s an example: The top of the computer desk, pictured above, is a ‘no-dump’ zone. Period.
We have other ‘no- dump’ zones in our home, because if we didn’t identify them as such, they would collect clutter. That’s what flat surfaces do.
Another example. In our home, we do not bite anything except the food we are chewing. So, biting your brother is not OK.
A third example of a blanket rule: if you are old enough to carry your dirty plates and silverware to the sink, you are old enough to put them directly in the dishwasher instead.
Some more.
We just don’t come to the lunch or supper table without first cleaning up all of the toys in the kitchen and living room.
We just don’t leave a bedroom without making sure that any and all toys and clothing are removed from the floor, and put away.
We just don’t go to bed each night without first flossing and brushing our teeth, whether there be few or many.
We just don’t treat others in an unlovely way. We use Romans 9:12-17 as pattern for life and our missions statement. Our behavior and attitudes should line up with the following verses:
“9 We will be sincere. We hate what is evil; and we cling to what is good. 10 We will be devoted to one another in love. We will honor one another above ourselves. 11 We will never be lacking in zeal, but will keep our spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12 We will be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. 13 We will share with the Lord’s people who are in need. We will practice hospitality.
14 We will bless those who persecute us; bless and do not curse. 15 We will rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16 We will live in harmony with one another. We will not be proud, but we will be willing to associate with people of low position.[c] We will not be conceited.
17 We will not repay anyone evil for evil. We will be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on us, we will live at peace with everyone.”
What do you think?
Do you make blanket statements in your home?
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